You Know You’re Getting Old When…

by thenibecamemum

Although Little One isn’t old enough to start making me feel my age yet, being a teacher means that I’ve had many conversations with children that have made me think ‘Am I really that old?’. Often, we get stuck in time and assume things are the same way they always have been until one little young’un pipes up and reminds you that times are changing!

Here are 6 things that might strike a nerve with you:

1) Blackboardsimg_0104

Back in the day, it wasn’t unusual to find a blackboard in the classroom. You loathed it if you managed to somehow rub against it resulting in a lovely zebra stripe, or loved it if you managed to get your hands on the blackboard rubber (bless the poor soul who fell victim to the rubber attack). We shudder when we think of the chalk screeching against the board, yet it was the best thing ever if you got picked to come and write on it.

These days the children have classes equipped with state of the art Interactive Whiteboards. The board does tricks, plays music, the full works. So when Child A asks how you “Put pictures on it” or Child B proudly announces that they had seen one at a museum, you can’t help but wonder ‘Am I old?’.

2) Musicimg_0094

Humming away to myself in the classroom, a child looks at me and asks, “What are you singing?” How could they not know that I’m singing ‘Wonderwall’? I explain that it’s Oasis to which the penny drops.

“Oooooh! That’s my Grandad’s favourite band.” Excuse me? Grandad?! Then I realise that his Grandad is only 45!

I begin to list other popular artists from my childhood. Backstreet Boys? Nope. Spice Girls? Vaguely. Avril Lavigne? Err. Boyzone? Oh, never mind. It’s plain to see that music moved on without me.

3) Using the Landline to Meet a Friend

Telefon / phone

These days technology is rife. Our children prefer to play computer games rather than be with nature (although not through lack of trying for Parents!) and our babies are experts in the art of the iPad. Heck, if you’ve reached the age of 4 and don’t own a mobile phone then who are you?!

If you can remember the time before this then you, my friend, are old. Gone are the days when you would ring your friend’s landline from your house phone to arrange a time to meet. Precision was key here.

“Under the big clock at Woolworths at 11:30am. I’ll be wearing my white and blue Kappa tracksuit.” (as was the style back then!)

The clock strikes 11:35am and panic sets in. What if they don’t turn up? 30 minutes was the general rule for waiting. After that, with no way of contacting them, you make your way to a public pay phone to check they’ve set off.

Who needs a mobile phone when you’ve got this clever little set up?!

4) Pogs in Walkers Crispsimg_6193

Back in the day, playgrounds were hunting grounds for trading. Marble collectors in one corner, football stickers in another, and then came the Pog (or Tazo).

For those who don’t know what a Pog is, they were small circular disks found inside Walker’s crisp packets which came in an assortment of themes – Loony Tunes, Star Wars, etc. Once you had collected enough, you would play other people by each piling up an equal amount of Pogs, face-down. You would then use a ‘Slammer’ (a much thicker plastic disk) to throw down onto the pile to try and flip over the disks. If you succeeded in flipping the disks to face upwards, they were yours for the keeping.

There have been many school riots on the back of foul play in the Pog battles!

5) Remembering a Time Before Facebookimg_0141

Although you may find it hard to believe, there was a time before Facebook.

Remember when we would run home from school, dial up our internet and connect to MSN chat? We’d only just left our friends yet we were desperate to speak to them because so much had just happened in those 15 minutes it took to get home.

Then Broadband came along and our MSN addiction grew. MSN then introduced photo and file sharing…mind blown!

Over time, MSN waned and MySpace took its place. Now we could upload hundreds of photos of ourselves pretending to be models and perfecting the signature “MySpace” pose. Nights would consist of hours spent stalking random profiles, tweaking our Bio and adding friends – because you’ve only made it if you have 1000+ friends.

I do remember the day Facebook came along. My first thought was why would anybody want to write a status of what they’re up to? What a silly concept! But how wrong I was. Facebook is now the norm. Declaring that you don’t have Facebook is like telling people you’re from Mars. And, “Oh I saw it on Facebook” is a common reply when you share an exciting story you’ve been bursting to tell somebody.

The days of MSN and Myspace are long gone!

6) Recording on VHS and Cassetteimg_0093

A discussion was had in our house a few months back about upgrading our TV package. At that time we could “only” record one programme whilst watching another. We thought that we needed to be able to record much more and that recording 4 at a time would be ample (because we clearly have nothing better to do with our lives than watch TV…).

Kids have definitely got it good these days. There was a time when recording television was not so simple. We would put our VHS tapes in and set the timer to record our favourite shows. Every now and then you would accidentally tape over something of importance – that recording of you as a baby, your Mum’s episode of Eastenders that was going to reveal who the killer was (no online spoilers in those days!) or your sibling’s favourite movie resulting in tears and a breakout of World War III.

And, what about music? When pocket money could only stretch to buying one or two cassette tapes at 99p each, the cassette player was genius. On Sunday afternoon, we’d settle ourselves down waiting for the charts to start on the radio. In goes the blank cassette tape and our finger hovers over the record button. If we had time on our hands then we would sit through the full show stopping and starting the recording to avoid the advertisements.

So here I sit wondering did I just get old? If you’re a spring chicken who doesn’t remember one or more of these then I promise you, your time will come!

Did any of these strike a nerve with you? Is there something your children have said to you that made you feel old? Comment and share it!

– Tee ????

Petite Pudding
One Messy Mama


ParentingIsFunny 13th November 2016 - 5:51 pm

I think Grandpa’s favorite band is Oasis hurt me the most. But I get it with all of those.

Tee ???? 13th November 2016 - 7:38 pm

It was definitely one of the harder ones for me to swallow!

mummydummy34 13th November 2016 - 9:23 pm

If you’re old, I’m old! These kids don’t know what they’re missing! I remember taping the chart show on Sunday and having to rewind and record back over the DJs talky bits lol ????

Tee ???? 13th November 2016 - 11:25 pm

Haha! That was me too. Kids definitely have it easy these days!

threeheartbabies 13th November 2016 - 10:37 pm

Oh yea. I can relate. I often wonder what our grandparents think because even more had changed for them. Crazy of things change. At times it’s good and bad. Thanks for linking up with #eatsleepblogRT

Tee ???? 13th November 2016 - 11:30 pm

I know! It makes me laugh because I was once one of those children making my parents and grandparents feel old. Like asking my mum if she had TV when she was younger (she’s only 50).

An Imperfect Mum (@animperfectmum) 14th November 2016 - 7:35 am

Oh I loved this – so many fab memories. I am definitely old and a little uncool now. However, I was cool with my group 7’s last week when I knew a youtuber (Gamer) and a silly youtube song, all thanks to my now 10 year old son! Maybe we just need to hang out with the kids a bit more? Thank you for linking up to #EatSleepBlogRT ????

Tee ???? 14th November 2016 - 7:42 am

Haha! My class always seem shocked if I know something they’re into, like I’m too old to know it!

Winnettes 14th November 2016 - 2:28 pm

OMG YES! Pogs were amazing! I remember all of these things. I remember having to say my last 10p to call my mum from a pay phone to come and pick me up after swimming. 10p would probably only allow you to dial a single digit now. Plus there is no way I would be able to remember all of the peoples phone numbers like I used to, I think I knew all of my relatives number and at least 10 friends by heart.

Tee ???? 14th November 2016 - 5:55 pm

Ahh this has just reminded me of my own memories of going swimming! I’m also the same with remembering numbers. I don’t even know my own landline these days!

Lucy's Locket 14th November 2016 - 2:31 pm

Nice trip down memory lane! I can relate to all of these. I didn’t know I was old already!! #GlobalBlogging #EatSleepBlogRT

Tee ???? 14th November 2016 - 5:56 pm

I didn’t think I was. I still feel like a spring chicken! But children seem to think we are, haha!

tinmccarthy 14th November 2016 - 4:18 pm

all so true!


Fridgesays 14th November 2016 - 7:37 pm

#eatsleepblogrt 34yo teacher hearing you and completely agreeing. Dial up did suck though, so may be some changes are good.

mummymiller 15th November 2016 - 3:23 pm

Oh god, I feel so old! I completely forgot about Pogs, I wish they still did toys in your crisps and cereal! I remember recording my favourite songs off the radio onto cassette, children will never know the struggles of making sure you got the start of the song! #GlobalBlogging

Alana - Burnished Chaos 15th November 2016 - 7:28 pm

It’s official, I’m ancient x

Jeannette 16th November 2016 - 10:09 am

Yes, i remember all of these… I must be old. ???? One of the things for me is the ticking of a grandfather clock. I took my small daughter to a clock shop just to hear it. with electronic watches you don’t hear that sound any more. #globalblogging

Mummy Bee 16th November 2016 - 5:34 pm

oh dear lol this has all made me feel really old I remember it all ooh the simpler times #GlobalBlogging

One Messy Mama 19th November 2016 - 5:50 pm

What a reminder. I was actually looking at some VHS tapes that I need to have transferred to DVD.. Times sure have changed. In a way, I miss those days! Boy and I feeling aged. haha! #globalblogging

Lauren M 15th January 2017 - 10:57 am

Ha I remember Pogs, that bought back good memories! I’d forgotten the chalky joy of writing on a blackboard, quite glad I don’t have to spend hours rewinding VHS tapes though!

thenibecamemum 15th January 2017 - 9:12 pm

I don’t think kids these days know how easy they’ve got it when it comes to getting back to the beginning of a movie ???? I used to set mine to rewind and go to do something else for a while!

Amy Fidler 19th January 2017 - 9:17 am

I remember a lot of these things too x especially a time before Facebook x

Chloe Lauren 18th July 2017 - 6:18 pm

Haha I love this! Well I am 19 and my music taste is a bit different to most people my age, mainly because I listen to songs from all decades and my favourite artists are Elvis Presley and Whitney Houston. I do like newer music, but there is just something about the older stuff. Great post 🙂

thenibecamemum 22nd July 2017 - 9:51 am

I definitely prefer older music to now but for me it’s probably the nostalgia! Thanks for reading 🙂

Nicola 11th May 2020 - 12:21 pm

They saw a blackboard…in a museum?! I’ve never felt so old in my life!

thenibecamemum 14th May 2020 - 7:36 am

I know, right!


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